Every Tet holiday, the story of the bright red lucky money envelope becomes a topic of interest. Giving 'lì xì' is not only a beautiful traditional culture of the Vietnamese people but also a way for adults to give love and luck to children and show respect to grandparents and parents. However, the question 'How much lucky money is appropriate?' is always a delicate concern. This article will explore the true meaning of the tradition and provide suitable suggestions for each recipient, helping you confidently give meaningful red envelopes.

What is the true meaning of the lucky money envelope?

Before deciding on the amount inside, the most important thing is to understand the value of this custom correctly. The tradition of 'lì xì' (lucky money) originated in China and has become an indispensable part of Tet culture in many East Asian countries, including Vietnam. According to legend, the vibrant red envelope symbolizes luck, happiness, and has the ability to ward off evil spirits and misfortunes. The small amount of money inside, called 'lucky money', symbolically represents a good start, prosperity, and health in the new year.

Therefore, the core value of 'lì xì' does not lie in the amount of money, but in the heart, care, and sincere wishes that the giver wants to convey. Overemphasizing the material aspect can inadvertently diminish the beauty and profound humanistic meaning of this custom.

How much lucky money for grandparents and parents is appropriate?

'Lì xì' for grandparents and parents is a way for children and grandchildren to show their filial piety, gratitude for their upbringing, and wish for their elders to be healthy and live long with their descendants. For this group, the amount in the lucky money envelope is usually larger than for children, reflecting the maturity and financial capacity of the younger generation. However, sincerity is still the most important thing.

• Common Range: Depending on one's financial condition, the amount of lucky money for grandparents and parents can range from 500,000 VND to 5,000,000 VND, or even more.
• Meaningful Numbers: You can choose beautiful numbers with lucky meanings such as 1,680,000 VND (one fortune, more prosperity), 1,880,000 VND (constant prosperity), 2,888,000 VND (forever prosperous), etc.
• More than money: Sometimes, a health-related gift, a vacation trip, or simply family gatherings and frequent inquiries about their well-being are more valuable than any amount of money. The lucky money envelope is just a small part to add joy to your parents.

   

How much lucky money for children and nieces/nephews brings joy?

This is the largest and most eager group of 'lì xì' recipients. For children, the joy comes from receiving a brand new red envelope and the good wishes from adults, not from the denomination inside. Giving too much money can create bad habits for children. Therefore, subtlety and meaning should be prioritized.

• Preschoolers (under 6): Children at this age are not very aware of the value of money. An envelope with a small amount like 10,000 VND, 20,000 VND, or 50,000 VND is enough to bring joy. It is important to use new, crisp bills.
• Primary School Children (6 - 10): They are beginning to understand money. The amount can range from 50,000 VND to 100,000 VND. You can accompany it with advice to use the money for useful things like books or school supplies.
• Teenagers (Middle & High School): At this age, they have more personal needs. The amount can be from 100,000 VND to 200,000 VND or 500,000 VND, depending on your closeness and financial situation.

Should you give lucky money to friends and colleagues?

The culture of 'lì xì' has expanded nowadays. Giving lucky money to friends, colleagues, or employees is no longer uncommon, especially on the first day back to work after the new year. This is an encouraging act that creates a joyful atmosphere and strengthens relationships.

For this group, the amount is usually symbolic, mainly for good luck at the beginning of the year. An envelope of 20,000 VND, 50,000 VND, or 100,000 VND is perfectly reasonable. In addition, the trend of online 'lì xì' through banking apps and e-wallets is also very popular, being both convenient and fun with random numbers or unique messages.

What are the lucky numbers for 'lì xì' according to folk beliefs?

To add more meaning and fun to the lucky money envelope, you can choose numbers that carry auspicious meanings in East Asian beliefs. This shows the giver's thoughtfulness and sincerity.

• Number 6 (Lộc - Fortune): Symbolizes wealth and luck. Examples: 66,000; 86,000 (prosperous fortune); 168,000 (one fortune, more prosperity).
• Number 8 (Phát - Prosperity): Symbolizes development and prosperity. Examples: 88,000; 188,000; 888,000.
• Number 9 (Cửu - Eternity): Symbolizes eternity and longevity, often used to wish grandparents a long life.
• Avoid taboo numbers: According to folk beliefs, you should avoid number 4 (Tứ - Death) and number 7 (Thất - Loss) as they carry unlucky meanings.

How to prevent giving lucky money from becoming a financial burden?

Tet is a time for joy, not for financial worries. To make giving lucky money a truly joyful experience, you should prepare reasonably.

First, make a list of people you plan to give 'lì xì' to and estimate a budget for each group. Second, exchange for new money at the bank early to avoid shortages near Tet. Most importantly, always remember that sincerity is what counts. Don't try to compete or compare your lucky money amount with others. To prepare for a fulfilling Tet 2026, remember that a warm wish, a sincere hug when giving the envelope is much more valuable. This tradition is about wishing luck for the entire upcoming Year of the Fire Horse 2026, not a material race.

Conclusion

Ultimately, there is no exact number for the question 'How much lucky money is appropriate?'. Reasonableness lies in your heart, your financial situation, and your relationship with the recipient. Instead of worrying about the number, focus on the beautiful meaning of giving luck and receiving smiles. Wishing you and your family a peaceful, prosperous new year filled with joy from the bright red lucky money envelopes!